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How long is a funeral service?
Simply put, “it depends on the service”. Just as no two movies or novels are the same length or cover the same emotional ground, no two end-of-life ceremonies are the same.
How can I best prepare my children to attend a funeral?
When asked this question, we like to tell people it’s best done with honesty and awareness. Let them know basically what they can expect. Advise them there will be people there who will be sad and may cry openly; tell them there will be time for some people to stand up and talk about how much they loved the person (but they won’t be required to do so). Let them ask all the questions they need to ask and reassure them you’ll be right next to them throughout the experience. Never force them to go to a funeral, and always give them the opportunity to change their mind about attending.
What is a Celebrant?
The Celebrant Foundation and Institute define Celebrants as “trained professionals who believe in the power and effectiveness of ceremony and ritual to serve basic needs of society and the individual. The Celebrant’s mission is to help the client create a ceremony that reflects his or her beliefs, philosophy of life, and personality.” A life-cycle Celebrant is especially valuable when a family has no religious affiliations or ties to a clergy person or minister who can officiate the funeral service. Involving a Celebrant in the funeral planning process has been found to enhance the funeral experience for all concerned. “The Celebrant comes to the table with no agenda,” shares the Institute’s website, “and no preconceived notion of what the ceremony should or must look like. Instead, through careful interviewing, the Celebrant elicits what is meaningful for each client.” If you think hiring a Celebrant is the right choice for your family’s situation, contact us for more details.
Must I wear black to the funeral ceremony?
Black used to be the only color to wear to a funeral; but not anymore. Today things are less formal than they once were, and it’s not totally uncommon for families to ask prospective guests to altogether avoid wearing black clothing. Should you have additional questions about funeral attire or etiquette, please contact us.
What else would you like to know?
This list of frequently-asked-questions was compiled through our professional experiences. But really, the thanks go to the hundreds of inquisitive, questioning families and individuals we’ve had the privilege of serving over the years: people who have asked the most commonly-asked questions you see here. If yours isn’t listed here, get the answer you need by calling us at (616) 361-2613 or (616) 453-8263.
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